Blog post 7/6/08
So Aeneas was rocking the sympathy vote when last we saw him. Wow. I wish I could write poetry like this: “longing withholds calm rest for her limbs.” That's iambic, I'm pretty sure. Even the translation rox. Huh. Dido has a sister! She wasn't mentioned any time before this. Her sister's name is Anna. I wonder if that's where the name and its commonality comes from?
Dido is doing the girl talk thing with Anna. She's all “I totally want to nail him, but I'm still sort of feeling married to Sychaeus, even though he was a prick, and also, dead now.” Anna is all “You gonna wait forever? You need to get laid, girlfriend. Also, he's a honey, and brings good soldiers with him to help you protect Carthage from the local bully boys.” So Dido's all “Right on.” Dido and Anna sacrifice to the relevant gods: Ceres, Phoebus, Lyceus, and Juno—the guardian of marriage! Aha! ROTFLMFAO Juno is the epitome of the wronged wife! Dido would be better off sacrificing to Hades and Athena!
Ah so. [69] She's referred to as “unhappy Dido” for the first time. I know all these guys get epithets, and this is the first time she's referred to by the one that will be hers for all time. “Infelix Dido.”
Dido is so besmitten that she neglects the work of building the city. Construction stops on the half-built citadel while she crunches on Aeneas. Juno sees what's going on, and reproaches Venus and Cupid for the nasty ensorcellment Dido is suffering under. Venus wants Aeneas to leave Dido eventually and she tells Juno (because she doesn't want to see the marriage Juno has suggested come to pass between Aeneas and Dido) that she is unsure if that's what Jupiter would want—in essence sending Juno to her hubby to get his permission for arranging a marriage between Aeneas and Dido. Juno falls for it and says she she'll take care of that, sounding like a wife sure she can manipulate her husband—sort of like Felicity Huffman's character Lynette Scavo on Desperate Housewives.
So Dido and Aeneas go hunting the next day. Little Ascanius is along for the ride and hoping to kill a boar or a lion. I can totally see him on a fat pony, going “Look at me, dad! Look at me!” [156]
You know, it just occurred to me. If Aeneas is Venus' son, Ascanius is Aeneas' son, and Cupid is Venus' son and hence Aeneas' brother—when Cupid possessed Ascanius, does that mean that Aeneas was his own son's brother? That sounds like a Kentucky family tree—a circle!
I'm not sure I understand what happens next—Juno uses the “force of nature” to marry Dido and Aeneas. “Fires flashed in heaven” and so forth. [167] What I don't understand is that Dido considers herself married from that moment. It doesn't say that Juno talked to her—why would Dido connect lightning and so forth with her being suddenly married to Aeneas?
Regardless, Juno seems to have spread the word, because Rumour (apparently a female devil of some kind, and I can't help that Virgil is being a little punitive, assigning female gender to Rumour) starts running through the cities of Libya telling everyone Aeneas and Dido are married and (because all they do is eat and screw) neglecting their realms. Some guy named King Iarbus hears about this and is NOT happy. [196] Apparently, Iarbus is the son of someone named Hammon and the nymph Hammon raped. Iarbus is mad about Dido and Aeneas being married because he sacrifices to Jupiter all the time, wanting to gain Jupiter's favor for his conquests in Libya—oh wait—it's because Iarbus has been turned down by Dido in his marriage suit.
He's all to Jupiter “That nancy boy with his pretty hair is schtupping MY rightful wife; what are you going to do about it?” So Jupiter tells his son Mercury to go and remind Aeneas that Venus promised Jupiter that Aeneas would go to Italy, not marry Dido and stay in Africa.
Mercury is supposed to tell Aeneas that he is supposed to win glory in Italy and get a kingdom for his son, not hang back in Carthage with his sexy love-muffin. So Mercury straps his flying shoes on and goes to see Aeneas. Mercury's all “Are you sticking around here to please a woman? Dad said to tell you to get gone, so you can build a kingdom in Italy to give to your kid.” Aeneas is freaked by the appearance of a God—and really, who wouldn't be? He starts wondering what the hell he's going to tell Dido. So he tells his men to get the ships ready in secret while he figures out how to break the news to his honey. The queen catches wind of the ships' preparation, however, and storms up to Aeneas to bitch him out. She's all “Are you stupid? It's winter, and you're going to sail off? Are you running away from me? Don't go, baby! You're leaving me in the lurch with my neighbors with no Trojan soldiers to protect me from the men I turned down for you! At least if I was knocked up, you wouldn't be leaving me with jack all to show for my time with you!”
This reminds me of the speech Petra Arkanian lets off to Bean when he keeps trying to leave her for her own good in Shadow of the Giant, by Orson Scott Card.
Aeneas is all “I never promised to marry you. If I'd had a choice, I never would have left Troy to begin with; Apollo told me to go to Italy and that's where I'm supposed to be! I can't cheat my son out of the kingdom I promised to win for him. Quit complaining—it's not what I want, either.”
OMFG—that's the harshest thing I've ever heard. Not even so much as a “we can still be friends.” It's more closely related to “It's not you, it's me.” Ouch!
So Dido's all “You BASTARD. I took you in! Fine, leave, but if you go, I'll kill myself and haunt you forever!” Aeneas wants to make her feel better (and I think a good way to have done that would have been to NOT say that if it was up to him, they never would have met), but goes and launches the ships anyway.
Virgil actually breaks into authorial commentary, here. I don't remember him doing that before, and says “What feelings then were yours, Dido, at such a sight!” [409] Wow. Poor lady. She got literally royally screwed. Dido says to Anna “Can you believe they're leaving? Please go and beg Aeneas to stay—tell him it's not MY fault Troy got sacked. Why won't he listen to me? Ask him just to stay for a little while until I can deal.” So Anna goes to Aeneas and relays Dido's request, but Aeneas won't change his mind.
Damn. Dido is “awed by her doom.” [450] I would be, too. Her brother kills her husband, she has to leave her home, sail across the ocean, build a new city, fend off suitors a la Penelope, falls for a smoking hottie by the will of the goddess of freaking sexual passion, and said smoking hottie not only leaves her, but literally tells her he wishes they'd never met. Now that is just harsh. Whoa. Dido is dreaming on that last night that Aeneas left—just listen to this: “In her sleep fierce Aeneas himself drives her in her frenzy; and ever she seems to be left lonely...” [466] Hot damn. No wonder the poor woman's about to go nuts. She's getting dream-nailed by Aeneas, and never actually finishes, as it were. I'd go starkers, too. Venus is a bitch. “So when, outworn with anguish, she caught the madness and resolved to die,” [474] Dido tricks her sister into taking all the stuff Aeneas has left behind and burning it in a giant pyre. Dido is literally consigning her hopes to the flames.
If it wasn't so sad, I'd be thinking about the time Harmony burned Spike's Sex Pistols albums. You know, we often burn the mementos of our past loves. Cordelia burned Xander's picture after she caught him with Willow. I've burned things before that belonged to previous lovers. I wonder if that old tradition of burning stuff that belongs to a previous love dates from this poem?
Aeneas was down on his ships that night, it seems, sleeping on the deck of his ship. He was probably there to wait for the morning's tide. I know you have to sail very early in the morning to catch the tide. Aeneas dreams of Mercury, who comes to him and tells him to watch out for Dido's revenge, 'cuz ain't no thang like a woman scorned. Mercury specifically says “varium et mutabile semper femina.” [569], meaning “A fickle and changeable thing is woman ever.” I wonder if that's where “Woman is fickle” comes from?
So Aeneas wakes up and tells his sailors to make tracks. I think it's pretty harsh to call DIDO fickle when Aeneas is the cowering bastard who's taking off in the middle of the night like he just left the money on the dresser. It's lightening up outside as Dido burns Aeneas' stuff—she looks outside and sees Aeneas' fleet leaving the harbor of Carthage. When she sees this, “Thrice and four times she struck her comely breast with her hand, and t[ore] her golden hair...” [586], thus answering the age-old question: yes, Buffy. Men ALWAYS turn evil after you sleep with them.
Dido fantasizes about killing Aeneas before letting him leave her—ew. She thinks about killing Ascanius and serving him up to his father as a meal. I seem to recall a story like that about Agamemnon and the House of Atreus. I'll have to see when I get to reading that play. I'm going to do the Iliad and the Odyssey next, but I should do Aeschylus' trilogy about Agamemnon after that—is it called the Oresteia? Hmm.
OMG—she calls on Hecate for vengeance [609]--now I KNOW Joss has read the Aeneid! Oooh. Dido curses the Trojans with the vengeance of her descendants—foreshadowing the Punic Wars, much?
“This is my prayer; this last utterance I pour out with my blood. Then do you, Tyrians, persecute with hate his stock and all the race to come, and to my dust offer this tribute! Let no love or treaty unite the nations! Arise from my ashes, unknown avenger [Gee. Could this be Hannibal??], to harass the Trojan settlers with fire and sword—today, hereafter, whenever strength be ours! May coast with coast conflict, I pray, and sea with sea, arms with arms, war may they have, themselves and their children's children!” [621]
Now THAT'S a curse, y'all.
So, Dido dashes off, through the house, finds the Dardan Sword (is this THE sword? Given to Aeneas when fleeing the sack of Troy?), casts herself down on the bed, cries out one last time, and falls on the sword. The servants dash in, screaming—her sister rushes in, and starts wailing, holding Dido up to stanch her wounds. Dido looks around for the light she sees (wow—how long has that concept of “going towards the light” at the moment of death been around, anyway?), when Juno finally takes pity on her and sets her spirit free. Damn. Dido had the roughest deal of just about anyone I can think of right off the top of my head. I think the thing that surprises me is (1) how long I managed to go WITHOUT mentioning a Joss Whedon TV show, and (2) how exact the parallels are. There is so much archetype creation in this book of the Aeneid that I can't even believe it.